improvements to the build

[barreiro]

Summary:

• Follow the recommended Quarkus plugin/platform split: use io.quarkus.platform for the BOM and io.quarkus for the maven plugin, inline platform version into pom.xml, remove .mvn/ directory
• Move TanStack devtools to a Vite plugin so they're stripped from production builds; switch from plugin-react-swc to plugin-react
• Restrict aesh interactive console to the CLI profile only
• Extract jandex-maven-plugin version into a property for consistency

Test plan:

• mvn verify passes (compile + tests)
• Build with CLI profile (mvn clean package -Pcli -Dh5m.cli.native=false -DskipTests) and confirm the aesh console starts
• Build without CLI profile and confirm no interactive console
• Run the production build (QUARKUS_DATASOURCE_JDBC_URL=jdbc:sqlite:~/h5m.db mvn clean package quarkus:run -DskipTests) and confirm the tanstack dev tools are not present in the web ui