onnxruntime: fix cuda build

[GaetanLepage]

Things done

Build currently fails when cudaSupport is on.

In file included from /build/source/onnxruntime/contrib_ops/cuda/collective/sharded_moe.cc:10:
/build/source/onnxruntime/contrib_ops/cuda/collective/sharded_moe.h:6:10: fatal error: contrib_ops/cuda/moe/ft_moe/moe_kernel.h: No such file or directory
    6 | #include "contrib_ops/cuda/moe/ft_moe/moe_kernel.h"
      |          ^~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

This regression was caused by microsoft/onnxruntime#28467.
Fix submitted upstream: microsoft/onnxruntime#31139.

Fixes #546608.
Supersedes #546053.

cc @NixOS/cuda-maintainers

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[GaetanLepage]

nixpkgs-review result

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Command: nixpkgs-review pr 547077 --extra-nixpkgs-config '{ allowUnfree = true; cudaSupport = true; }' --package onnxruntime
Commit: af4e7bf6a0e55dd832fc5fd4393738a36e190379

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x86_64-linux

✅ 1 package built:

• onnxruntime

[NickCao]

I think it's currently recommended to vendor unmerged patches.