feat(connections): warn about connection string options outside of the shared policy VSCODE-821

[ivandevp]

Description

The connection confirmation modal now calls out the options that are outside of @mongodb-js/connection-string-policy, the shared list of connection string options that Compass and the extension consider safe to act on without asking first.

Checklist

• New tests and/or benchmarks are included
• Documentation is changed or added
• I have signed the MongoDB Contributor License Agreement (https://www.mongodb.com/legal/contributor-agreement)

Motivation and Context

VSCODE-821. VSCODE-798 made the connection string visible; this points at the parts of it worth refusing over.

• Bugfix
• New feature
• Dependency update
• Misc

Open Questions

Dependents

• Package added in feat(connection-string-policy): add shared connection string policy checks VSCODE-821 devtools-shared#863
• Compass adopting the same package in refactor(compass): use the shared connection string policy package VSCODE-821 compass#8442

Types of changes

• Backport Needed
• Patch (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• Minor (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Major (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to change)