Fix the remaining macOS flakes: real-window clip and relay-loss tests

crates/net/tests/tunnel.rs

@@ -440,9 +440,13 @@ async fn without_an_answer_to_the_probes_the_relay_still_makes_it_type_2() {
     assert!(!reach.udp, "{reach:?}");
     assert!(side.tunnels.relay_connected());
     assert_eq!(tunnel::nat_type(Some(&reach), true), 2);
-    // The relay goes away: nothing answers any more.
+    // The relay goes away: nothing answers any more. A relay that closes its connection says
+    // so at once (about 60 ms on an idle machine). When that close does not reach the endpoint
+    // (the server is torn down while it is being sent, which a loaded macOS runner does
+    // sometimes), the endpoint finds out from its QUIC connection, which gives up after the
+    // relay client's idle timeout of 35 s (iroh-relay, quic.rs). Wait for that, not for 10 s.
     relay.stop().await;
-    let gone = tokio::time::timeout(Duration::from_secs(10), async {
+    let gone = tokio::time::timeout(Duration::from_secs(45), async {
         while side.tunnels.relay_connected() {
             tokio::time::sleep(Duration::from_millis(50)).await;
         }

crates/share-worker/tests/access.rs

@@ -178,7 +178,7 @@ mod real_window {
     use std::time::{Duration, Instant};
 
     use anyplay_share_worker::capture::{self, WindowTarget};
-    use anyplay_share_worker::mac::sck::SckSound;
+    use anyplay_share_worker::mac::sck::{self, SckSound};
     use anyplay_share_worker::sound::SoundSource;
 
     use super::{WORKER, screen_access};
@@ -228,8 +228,21 @@ mod real_window {
             let deadline = Instant::now() + Duration::from_secs(20);
             while Instant::now() < deadline {
                 if let Some(pid) = pid_of_calculator() {
-                    // The window needs a moment to be drawn.
-                    std::thread::sleep(Duration::from_secs(3));
+                    // The window is drawn some time after the process exists: on a cold start of
+                    // a loaded runner longer than the few seconds the worker looks for it. Wait
+                    // until the system lists it (each try looks for a few seconds itself).
+                    let target = WindowTarget {
+                        window: None,
+                        pids: vec![pid],
+                        title_contains: String::new(),
+                    };
+                    let listed_by = Instant::now() + Duration::from_secs(60);
+                    while sck::find_window(&target).is_err() {
+                        assert!(
+                            Instant::now() < listed_by,
+                            "Calculator has no window after 60 s"
+                        );
+                    }
                     return Some(Calculator {
                         pid,
                         started_here,